5 Signs You’re In A Situationship

Situationships are so overrated. You’re together, but you’re not together and you never know what’s going on with the other person. You have so many emotions regarding the person and feelings are definitely present. Neither of you have to explain yourself to the other because you have no title nor a commitment. If you don’t know what a situationship is it’s when you’re not actually dating, but it’s more than just having sex. Sounds confusing right? That’s because it is.

Here are 5 signs that you’re in a situationship

    1. You have no title.


When your friends ask what you guys are you can’t really give a straight answer. You may say something along the lines of “we’re just friends” or “we’re going with the flow.”

    1. You only have small talk.


You never talk about plans for the future and your conversations are pretty casual.

        1. You attend events alone.


They don’t come to your parent’s house for the holidays, you don’t invite them to birthday dinners or parties. You don’t know each other friends. You try to make it make sense even though you know your “situationship” should’ve been your plus one.

        1. You have no photos together.


No cute selfies equal no social media post. Not that posting your partner means anything or is a requirement or a way to secure your relationship.

        1. You both avoid the talk.

The two of you have gotten so comfortable with what you’re doing that you’re afraid if you say something the other may not feel the same way. A conversation can only have two outcomes. You can either both feel the same way and move to the next stage or you could find out that only one of you is feeling the other way more and call it quits. It’s more important to spare your feelings than to drag on something for a year plus and get your feelings crushed.

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My name is Miranda Brown. I am a proud Alumna of Tennessee State University class of 2016. I am from Franklin, TN a small town right outside of Nashville. I am very much so an introvert, but I do tend to sometimes come out of my shell as I'm known as the extra-dramatic friend. I love writing and blogging even more. My favorite quote is, "reality is wrong. dreams are real" - Tupac. I'm all about being positive and spreading good vibes.


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